I highly recommend you write your own romantic wedding vows because your wedding is a very personal affair and nobody can express your true feelings and emotions for your fiance better than you can. This page is not to give you examples of wedding vows, the Internet is full of them and you may want to peruse them at your leisure. However, I can almost guarantee you that you would not find any single one of them that would completely resonate with your true feelings and emotions that you have in your heart for your fiance. You know why? It's simple, nobody can feel for the significance of your fiance in your life better than you can. Nobody can relate to the circumstances that crossed your paths with each other, blossomed your relationship, how you proposed or got proposed, the emotions your felt and now has brought you to this point when you are contemplating your wedding vows.
You may not be a writer or you may be choking up with so much emotion for your fiance that words won't translate into text. Hey don't underestimate yourself ! It's all inside you and it is my attempt on this page to help you reach inside and bring out all those emotions and turn them into the most enthralling, the most enticing and the most appropriate vow that anyone can possibly write to celebrate the entwining of your lives together on your wedding day. We can work on this more when we meet to discuss the details about your wedding ceremony but in the meantime here are some pointers for you to take the frist crack at this project. Trust me, when you can pull this off, you will be so proud of yourself. When your fiance listens to your vows it will be the wedding song that your fiance will remember for life. I wrote my own vows for my wife and every year on her anniversary, I take her to the same place where we got married and I recite those same vows to her as a constant reminder of how I continue to feel for her. It's magical and it is my wish for you make an honest attempt to claim this fistful of pixiedust to sprinkle on your wedding day.
By the way, some couples feel uncomfortable saying their vows in presence of anyone else. I will be happy to step away for a while during your vow exchange ceremony to give you the space to really feel the words you say to your soon-to be spouse. It is your personal moment, a moment that you will cherish for life. So if this privacy is what you want, just say it and I will respect and honor your wish. You must be absolutely comfortable when you say your vows and the world around you would not exist when you start to evoke and feel those emotions that only you can feel and express.
When you sit down to go through this exercise, make sure you remain undisturbed. Turn your phone and television off - perhaps you want to do this in a peaceful and quiet place - maybe beside a lake or park, on the beach where you can stay comfortable and focus on the task at hand. You can handwrite or perhaps better still, use a word processor on a laptop or tablet -that way you can edit, reframe, enhance easily. Another option would be to simply activate a voice recorder and just record your voice as you speak whatever emotions come to mind. Later on you can edit and write them down. Yet another alternative - kind of a double dipping would be to use a voice transcriber plugin on the text editor on your computer. When you activate that plugin and open that text editor, you can simply speak clearly and your words would automatically translate to text. Pretty cool! Why not use modern technology to create your modern wedding vows? However you choose to record your thoughts and words, the guidelines are the same as described below. Come on - you've got this ...